Meme of the Week

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As found here. Happy Friday.


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Things that change a whole bit in a little time

Especially when you are expecting the least. Many people believe that this happens for the good others think at least we are going some direction.

For me change even the tiniest is a big thing. Like the tattoo that I recently got of my husbands name. 

 Its been couple of days and well this change has a huge impact on me . My husband and I have gone thru  a lot in the recent year and well I havent got use to the reality of the nature of our relationship. Getting a tattoo was a big change and something I didnt expect which what worries me I guess. I can be a risk taker to a point but this time it almost feels uneasy have it there. The idea was to get the tattoos like couples. Having two other tattoos my husband requested I sit first and get the tattoo started so he can see it being done. Thinking that it really doesnt matter who gets it done first I went and well at the start of the second letter my husband decided since I am in pain he will be too. He got up and walked out and he didnt get one done.

Due to that in many ways I feel almost cheated and dont know how to explain to him my feelings about the situation. To me it feels that whenever we come to that edge where we have to make a strong decision together he well decides with me at first and once the decision is in effect he backs out. Am i being naive in this case? Or am i just thinking too much into a subject? 

Whatever the answer maybe the ink is on me forever and its hard to except the idea

It almost breaks my heart to think like this; being so suspective but it feels like I might not be wrong to think that way.

Thought of the day! 

No matter what comes your way if you have the will to keep going you will always manage to make the best out of the situation 

There is no giving up no matter what it comes down to especially when you walk down the aisle to make something better 



Phillips’ Animal Garden

The island with all sun! and no snow! & a lot Iguanas.

It was a joy to travel from almost 10 Degree weather with snow to almost 85 Degree weather. Its enchanting that there is paradise sitting 5 hrs away from the place we call home. its a pretty small island barely even visible on the map; one would have to zoom in a lot to find it on Google maps. Aruba is the island on the southern Caribbean sea, north of the coast of Venezuela. This island is so tiny that with a typical jeep one can travel the island in about 6 hrs. Even though its surrounded by water, on this island its like living in the desert, with the various types of Cacti and all sizes of Iguana.

The white sandy beach and the ruffling salty waters make the island beautiful place to stay for a vacation; there are quite a few attractions all of which are easy to find as you start understanding the roads. With the people being friendly and helpful its easy to travel without hesitation.  The locals population range to about 100,000 with the high turnover tourist rate of over 60%.

There is alot of developing that needs to be done but this is a perfect get away for someone who loves the beach. Time can go by quick and it becomes even more adventurous if you dare to take your own car to travel around the island.

I like brains…

This is absolutely adorable!
I love the pictorial and well in many ways i just agree about your sweet little rant on brain.

Brain! Its all about the brain and yet the author has a brain writing about a brain. Wow our brains!

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Yeah, I really do like brains. The ultimate happiness is when I meet someone who really use the brain as I do. My brain is always working on something, usually a problem I need to solve, or something random shit I don’t even need to know. It is like I have two brains, one ‘daily’ brain and the one working all the time in the dark.

I like it when I am forced to use both of them, push and stretch my brain cells to their limits. I call it ‘mental orgasm’ when my brain(s) is(are) so sore that the only option to survive is to go to bed and get some sleep. My best friend can push me that far and I really love it.

If I don’t use my brain, my body will get restless and that will always cause me trouble, one way or another..haha..

Brain exercise is good for…

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I been the type of person who has to get their feelings out one way or other; well anger has been that outlet and has become one of my worst enemies recently. Every little things pisses me off; I don’t know whether its the hormones adjusting or second round of puberty but whatever it is I need to get rid of it or find a way to channel it.

It been a while that I been dealing with the stress, the work load, sometimes the loneliness, is getting me to push myself, to explore more and more of who I am- I been spending too much time with myself, per se. I am starting to feel like I need to find a away to explore this realm – who knows where I would end up. Though recently my interest has been in reading other peoples life; seeing their perspective on things and that’s been working. I am starting to see the world a slight bit differently than normal. Perhaps that’s the way to go. A day at a time.

I know a major change has taken place and well unlike seasons I am not that great with change. The hope is to be a better person at the end of the day but who knows.


Nothing Left – Day 58

This post made me think about my uncle who has small business that he bought back in 2000’s. Its completely family owned and I use to go there each summer to help out with whatever I can. One of the biggest cons about small business when its family owned is that you learn not to rely on anyone else other than family and well that can take a toll on the amount of work that has to be put in. Also another bad thing is that whenever there is emergency at least one person is stuck at the store; stressing while taking care of customers.

Though there are some great benefits to family business is that the money stays in the family, there will always be someone who can take of the business especially when its big family. I am recently looking into investing in a small business but I am bit hesitant as its only me an my husband and we live far from both our families. Plus the economy isn’t going that well and investing in a property, the store and the equipment and what if it doesn’t breakeven I would be at a great loss. I just want it to turn in to something I have to drag along I want to enjoy my creation.

So I hope for a better economy than perhaps the rest can be taken care of.


Small businesses are the backbone of America. Many are started but only a small percentage survive beyond ten years.

A close friend of mine owns a thriving small business that has been is business for over 44 years. Most of his employees and staff are family members. There are pros and cons with working with family members on a daily basis in a family owned company.

Unfortunately, when tragedy strikes a family member, the business is directly affected. When I heard about the tragedy, I immediately wanted to help.

I offered my assistance to the help out in the business however needed. Today, I gave my time and talent. I volunteered the entire day.

To my surprise, a couple of others also volunteered to help.

It’s now 11:30pm as I write this blog and I’m still here working. When I said the entire day, he took it literally. I’m certain…

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